Nasir’s Journey—Surviving Violence and Finding Support Through IraQueer

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In Iraq, LGBTQI people endure extreme violence and discrimination, often without any legal protections. Many, like Nasir (a pseudonym), a gay man from Basra, face brutal abuse and threats of honour killings after their identities are discovered. When Nasir’s family learned of his sexual orientation, he was severely beaten, disowned, and threatened with death, leading to both physical and emotional trauma. Forced to support himself having sustained a slipped disc from the violence, Nasir needed urgent medical care, safe housing, and financial assistance to regain stability.

Nasir sought help from IraQueer, Iraq’s primary LGBTQI organisation. Having followed IraQueer’s work, he reached out to them as a last resort, knowing they were the only organisation openly advocating for LGBTQI rights in Iraq. IraQueer quickly responded, providing him with an emergency grant. This financial support enabled Nasir to rent a room in a remote agricultural area outside of Basra, away from the threats posed by his family. The grant also covered his living expenses and essential medical treatments for his injury. With this support, he was finally able to consult a doctor and begin much-needed treatment, helping him recover physically.

Recognising the deep emotional scars from his ordeal, IraQueer also provided Nasir with psychological support. This ongoing care was crucial in helping him cope with the trauma of the violence, threats, and isolation he had endured. Regular check-ins and access to mental health resources allowed him to process his experiences and rebuild his resilience.

The comprehensive assistance Nasir received significantly improved his well-being. As his physical condition improved, he began contemplating a return to work. The stability of having his rent and living expenses covered meant he could focus on his recovery. The psychological support helped him regain hope and stability, giving him a chance to consider a safer future. Although he is still considering emigrating for his security, IraQueer’s support has allowed him the space to plan his next steps without the immediate pressure of survival.

“I contacted IraQueer because it is the only organisation in Iraq that is concerned with queer people and stands by them and defends their rights,” Nasir shared. “IraQueer supported me psychologically and financially. It was my only refuge.”

Nasir’s story underscores the vital role of organisations like IraQueer in providing lifesaving support to LGBTQI individuals in crisis. By addressing both physical and mental health needs and offering financial stability, IraQueer has helped him recover from trauma and begin rebuilding his life.

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